Day One: Introduction to Tantra & Chakra Healing + Recognizing Self-Sabotage
🌟 Welcome to Day One of the SMILE Program!
Welcome to the beginning of your transformative journey. Each day will consist of:
✅ Stretch (Yoga movement, breathwork)
✅ Meditate (A pre-recorded meditation by me for the day 'audio link at the bottom of the page')
✅ Implement (Journal) (Download the journal pdf at the bottom of this lesson)
✅ Learn (Read a section from the course)
✅ Exercise (Daily movement challenge)
Today, we dive into the essence of Tantra and Chakras—understanding how our energy flows and how blockages can impact our lives. This is your first step toward reclaiming your power and unlocking your fullest potential.
🌱 The Foundation of Tantra and Chakras
In Sanskrit, Tantra means “loom, weave, warp” and Chakra means “wheel.” In Indian traditions, Tantra also signifies “text, system, method.” The essence of Tantra teaches us that everything is interconnected—nothing exists independently.
Imagine a wheel: if it stops moving, it becomes blocked, creating an energetic knot that disrupts the flow of life force. Tantra brings the unconscious into consciousness, illuminating the energy channels (chakras) that run through your body, connecting with light, sound, and color.
When these channels are blocked, they hold onto suppressed experiences—particularly emotional and sexual trauma, such as betrayal, assault, molestation, or rape. These blockages create energy knots that influence your interactions and how you experience connection, freedom, and pleasure.
💫 The Purpose of Tantric Healing
Tantric Healing (or Sexual Healing) aims to release these energy knots that inhibit the full expression of your sexual and emotional energy. When the chakras open, the body begins to relax and feel safe, unlocking the potential to experience connection, freedom, and pleasure.
Opening your chakras is an essential part of the search for serenity—a state of being calm, peaceful, and untroubled. These energy knots are psychosomatic or psychoid, intertwining emotional, psychological, and physiological experiences that are felt within the body.
🔥 Why Release Matters
Think of a cramped muscle—how it clenches, tightens, and becomes painful. The same happens with energetic knots. When blocked, they create a contracted, clenched feeling that limits the flow of energy, resulting in discomfort, pain, numbness, or even a loss of energy or desire. This diminished flow also impacts your ability to feel connected to yourself and others.
Just as energy knots block your flow and hinder your sense of peace, self-sabotaging habits can also block your progress and keep you stuck in negative cycles. Let’s break free from these patterns together by becoming aware of how self-sabotage shows up in your life.
💡 Understanding Self-Sabotage
Self-sabotage refers to behaviors or thought patterns that hold you back and prevent you from achieving what you truly desire. It’s like having an inner voice that tells you you’re not good enough or that you’ll fail before you even start. It’s time to recognize these patterns and break free from them.
🚩 What Does Self-Sabotage Look Like?
Here are some common forms of self-sabotage that may show up in your life:
- Procrastination - Putting off tasks and responsibilities.
- Focusing on Others' Success - Comparing yourself to others instead of celebrating your own progress.
- Negative Self-Talk - Constantly putting yourself down or doubting your abilities.
- Being Too Hard on Yourself - Setting unrealistic standards and punishing yourself for not meeting them.
- Gossiping - Engaging in conversations that bring others down to feel better about yourself.
- Not Keeping Promises - Failing to follow through on commitments to yourself or others.
- Always Being Late - Disrespecting your own time and the time of others.
- Not Asking for Help - Thinking you must do everything on your own and rejecting support.
- Lack of Commitment - Quitting before you even give yourself a chance to succeed.
- Perfectionism - Needing things to be perfect before taking action.
- Retail "Therapy" - Shopping impulsively to fill an emotional void.
✨ Take a Moment to Reflect
Which of these habits resonate with you?
Write them down and acknowledge them—you can’t change what you don’t recognize.
Give yourself grace in this process. It’s okay to feel challenged, and it’s okay to take your time. The important part is being honest with yourself.
🌱 Guided Meditation: Unlocking Your Energy Flow
- Listen to the Guided Meditation Audio to center your energy and release tension.
- The meditation will help you connect to your Root, Heart, and Crown Chakras to restore your energy flow.
🧘Stretch & Exercise Routine
- Cat-Cow Stretch (1 minute)
- Flow between arching and rounding your spine to release tension.
- Spinal Twist (1 minute)
- Gently twist to each side to release tension and improve mobility.
- Heart-Opening Stretch (1 minute)
- Push your chest forward and open your arms to expand your heart space.
- Forward Fold (1 minute)
- Relax your upper body and release tension from your back and neck.
- Kegel Exercise (1 minute)
- Strengthen your pelvic floor by tightening and releasing for core stability.
✅ Call to Action: Remember the Full SMILE Experience
To get the most out of Day One, don’t forget to:
- Listen to Your Audio Meditation: Connect with your energy and set the intention for your day.
- Follow the Stretch & Exercise Routine: Move your body and release stored tension.
- Journal: Return to your SMILE Journal to anchor your growth, align your energy, and receive divine insight through reflection.
- Engage in Self-Awareness: Stay mindful of how your energy feels throughout the day.
💪 Takeaway Message: Reclaim Your Power
Today is about building awareness and unlocking your energy flow. Remember that transformation doesn’t happen overnight, but every step counts. You are planting seeds for lasting change and healing.
You are not alone on this journey. You’ve got this! 🌱💫
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